The women carry monsters around themselves

Introduction

In our society, women play a Vitol role. Without a woman, many relationships’ lose their beauty, whether women has a strong bond with his father as a daughter, beloved for a brother as a sister, and for their children as mother. These relationships should be a source of strength for a woman, but our society use these relations to troll women from different methods. The women is honorable, because she raise the next generation for a society. However, our society always blamed and accused on women if anything wrong happened in her family. The women of this era cannot understood she carries monster around themselves.

Why women can’t see these monsters?

By nature, a woman is remarkably sensitive and gentle by her heart. She feels pains and emotion far more deeply than a man does; even a slight raise in your tone sends a sharp signal to her soul that she is facing harshness.

Because of this innate warmth, she often fails to spot the monsters disguised as human beings around her. If someone speaks to her with a faint touch of affection, a soft flame of hope lights up in her heart. Unfortunately, the society’s monster exploit this weak point and they are using her trust and gentleness as an advantage point to target, manipulate, and troll her.

How these monsters are trolling women?

In today’s age, these monsters are everywhere. Making life unbearable for women both inside and outside home. Their way of harassing women is sound like this:

“Look at what she’s wearing,”

“Did you see how that girl was looking?”

“She has too much attitude,”

“Look she is taking pictures even in a hijab,”

“She is definitely checking me out”

“Was she following us?

Wow, where is her modesty now?”

This mindset shrinks the walls of a woman’s own home, trapping her under the constant fear of “what will people say?” Meanwhile, without even knowing what forced her to step out in the first place, you and I pass taunts and judgments.

State of Islam Today

According to Islam and Morality

Morality not gives us the right to point fingers at anyone; and certainly not a woman. We must never forget that our mother, sister, daughter, and life partner are all women. Islam strictly forbid mocking others, making baseless accusations, or targeting strangers with unwarranted criticism.

Allah explicitly forbids such behavior in Surah Al-Hujrat:

“O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule another people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule other women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another.”

The Prophet strictly commanded:

“Treat women kindly”

Our Prophet also said:

“Rasool Allah describes the emotional delicacy of women by comparing them to fragile glass vessels, reminding men to always treat them with utmost gentleness, care, and respect”.

If you refrain from pointing fingers at someone else’s daughter, I can guarantee that the entire monster in the world combined won’t be able to harm your own sister or daughter.

So, Will we rebel against the monster inside us?

Frequently ask questions

1. Why can women not see the monsters around themselves?

Sometimes harmful people hide behind normal behavior, making their intentions difficult to recognize. Social pressure, trust, fear, or familiarity can also make warning signs harder to notice. The responsibility, however, always lies with those who behave badly not with the woman.

2. How do public judgment and street harassment harm women in daily life?

They can create fear, stress, embarrassment, and a feeling of insecurity. Repeated harassment may also make women avoid certain places, change their routines, or feel uncomfortable in public spaces.

3. What do Islam and morality teach about judgment, taunts, and criticism?

Islam teaches believers to avoid insulting, mocking, humiliating, and unfairly judging others. Criticism should be respectful and constructive, while unnecessary taunts and hurtful speech should be avoided.